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Need for RGI uniforms

Monday, October 3rd, 2011

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Since the establishment of RGI (Ruth Girls Institute) Loren and I have felt that uniforms for the girls would solve a multitude of problems. Because of budget restraints it has just not been feasible. Now, we have no choice. Enjoy Padmaker’s report and then the response from the RGI administrator, Nupi. When Loren laughingly asked, “You did this without consulting me?” Her reply was, “That’s the prerogative of a daughter.” She has managed her budget so well that she found money to make uniforms happen for this year. Hopefully she can continue to do so—more girls means more money. We are so proud of our staff.

Padmaker wrote:

“There are girls from “Kadui” and this presents a new situation. They do not have proper and enough clothes to wear. Friday evening Alishiba and I made a trip to Itwari to buy dress (Punjabi) material for them. We also went to Badana’s house to share this request with her. She gladly gave three of her dresses (Punjabi) for these girls. The girls were very excited to get good dresses. Leela is stitching dresses (Punjabis) for them—two each. We also bought a towel and some iners. (YOU can guess what this is) Doing this for these girls brought joy to our hearts. It was raining that evening, but that did not deter us from making a trip on the motorbike to Itwari. I wish you (Loren) were with me—at least the trip would have ended with a bar of ice

Nupi’s wrote:

“This year we are stitching Punjabi uniforms for the girls. It is costing us seven hundred and forty rupees per student ($15) for two sets of uniforms. The decision has been taken because we found out that there are many girls who do not have proper clothes. Some have maybe just one pair of Punjabi that can be called modest enough for them to be comfortable wearing in class. So we decided to stitch two pairs that they will feel comfortable in and also there will be no comparison of clothes among the girls. This will eliminate inferiority complex problems with them. One pair will be all peach and one will be all turquoise, giving them many combinations. Peach and turquoise are the RGI school colors.

We do not have to spend on the stitching as our second year students are stitching the uniforms for us. This saves us one hundred rupees per student. (Remember, they treat a rupee the same as we do a dollar)

I am sure that as our Christmas letter goes out, uniforms will be on the list. I look at my wardrobe and think, “How would I live with only TWO???”


Snakes is WHERE?

Friday, September 23rd, 2011

These are the kind of stories that it just kills Loren “Papi” that he is not at Prakash to experience. Nupi loves to rub it in a little too. Just imagine what all those girls sounded like! Well, who ever said life in India was not exciting. We have no idea if the snake was poisonous or not, but look carefully at the picture of it wound around the stick—big enough to make me shutter. Here is Nupi’s account of the events of the day.

“Hey, Papi after what you did to the monkeys one time, we now have other visitors coming to RGI. But these are much more terrifying. I was sitting in my office and Pushpa, one of our tailoring students, came to me running during the recess. She was so terrified she could barely speak, “Madam, there is a snake in the toilet.” I went to see hoping to see it somewhere on the floor but to my amazement, it was down in the toilet in the water. It could be clearly seen. I called for help!!!

The boys in the computer class were scared to kill it and the question was how to kill it? I called for my best available PBI staff. I called Moses and he came running along with two boys.

He tried to kill it but since the space was so less the snake went inside. Then came Ramesh and Premdas they thought of looking for it in the chambers (septic tank) behind. It needed to be killed for sure. But they could not find it. One person was watching in the other toilets in the row and others were watching the opened chambers. It was seen in one of the chambers, but again slipped away.

As this waiting was long, some boys were going to use the toilet on their side and I simply said, “Boys keep a watch and be careful when you go in. I don’t want any snakebites.” To my utter amazement a boy came out running, “Madam the snake is trying to come out from the drain on the floor below the sink.” The team came to kill it and again the snake slipped away. The hide and seek game was on and our team was determined to kill it. They poured phenyl, hot water, and kerosene in the toilets, both on the boys and girls sides. Watching for it to come out from the chambers.

How proud our team was. By now it was 1:15pm. At one o’clock we said to the boys and staff, “Leave it, you need to go for lunch.” BUT they said, “No, today first the snake and then lunch.” Anyway this was a thrilling story and I know it is going to sadden Papi that he missed the thrill. Two days later a small snake was seen in the office toilet, but it went away. Ramesh tried to look for it but it could not be found. I praise God for his protection, for us, and all the students at RGI. Praise be His name.”

“Looks like Papi will have a new project when he goes to Prakash again.”


Ouch!!! That Hurts

Monday, September 19th, 2011

RGI has some stories to share with you. Sometimes, it is just NOT a good day.

As the academic year was about to come to an end the RGI girls were busy in completing their projects and their practical work. They have worked on their sewing machines for almost a year now, but still accidents happen. An as Papi says, “An accident is an accident.”

I, Nupi, heard screaming in the classroom as I worked in the office and went to see what was all the commotion. Veedha one of our tailoring students had pierced her finger with the sewing machine needle.

The teacher was busy trying to remove the needle from the machine. Finally Veedha’s hand came out, but with the needle in it. It had gone through all the way, it was half up and half down.

We called for a vehicle and Premdas, the driver, came to take Veedha to the hospital. We all thought it would be best to go to the nearest doctor in Wadi to save time. We went to one Physician but she refused to do anything and suggested we take her to the surgeon. We went to the clinic that the doctor suggested and there was no doctor, only a nurse sitting. She wouldn’t do anything. Finally we decided to take Veedha to a hospital in the city—we had no other option.

By now it had started raining very heavily. We were in the Armada and the wipers were not working. Premdas could not see anything ahead we were driving slowly and Premdas suggested we might need to go back to Prakash and take the Tempo Mini Bus. My car was at RGI so I said, “Lets take my car so that it’s easier to drive through the traffic.” So we came to Prakash exchanged the car and started off towards Nagpur. We went to the emergency in the hospital. Veedha was quickly attended to and she was given aTetanus vaccine and an orthopedic surgeon was called. Finally the needle was removed.

All this time Veedha proved to be a brave girl she cried in the beginning, but later as I engaged her in talks she stopped crying. She even told the doctor about RGI in her brief time with him. She said to me, “Why did this happen to me? I have gained some health at RGI because you all take so good care of me. When Veedha first arrived at RGI her hemoglobin count was so low that she used to be tired and exhausted very quickly. We took her to the doctor and she was put on medicine and was given a good diet. Now her hemoglobin is good. She said, “I don’t want to loose blood now or else I feel very sick but, by God’s grace I will heal very fast.”

Since graduation, Veedha has returned to her hostel and will be continuing her 10th class studies. She had discontinued school because of poor health. She came to RGI and studied tailoring and learned the importance of studying. She wants to study hard and take care of her mother who works hard to make the ends meet. Veedha’s father had deserted her mother. Her mother started living with another man hoping that he would help take care of her children, but things did not change this man too turned out to be a drunkard. Veedha’s mother has to go to peoples houses to clean utensils and works in the farms when work is available. After all these things happened in her young life, an evangelist in her village, admitted Veedha to a Christian hostel. There she studied up to 9th class. Later she came to RGI and did her tailoring. Now she is back at the orphanage to complete her 10th class.

Each girl is given an opportunity to speak to the student body at graduation. Here is Veedha’s graduation day response: “I thank God for bringing me to RGI. I loved RGI, especially the kitchen and the toilets. I learned so many things at RGI. I never studied before coming to RGI, but now I understand how important it is to study. I liked the discipline here. I grew in my faith in Jesus through Starting Point. I used to be such a sickly girl before coming to RGI, but I was so well taken care of that I am much better now. I never prayed before, but now I do pray regularly. My mother is not a believer, but she saw the change in me and always reminded me to pray when I went home for vacation. I hope and pray that my mother and my father will come to the Lord through me. I loved the staff at RGI that did not let me feel I was away from my family. I used to be very upset when they disciplined me in the beginning, but later I understood the importance of their discipline. I was blessed through all the experiences at RGI.”

Now on a lighter note:
Exams were over now so the girls had leisure time to cook and learn some new things. We had a special class on chocolate making.

The girls really enjoyed this class because who doesn’t like chocolates when you can lick your fingers and eat the chocolates that you have made yourself. Chocolate making can prove to be a “very promising” business that the girls can do at home.