Archive for February, 2010


Dhobiville?

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

Before I left Georgia I was asked how we kept our clothing clean.  As I began to explain the all-embracing process of beating the laundry, the person exclaimed, “You must write about this!”  Sooooo here goes.

Most laundry in India is done by “beating” the clothes on a rock or concrete surface.

A gaggle of women, laughing and talking against the steady drum-like sound of clothes being beat against stone will be the scene at almost every village watercourse, or well throughout India. After washing the clothing and saris they are spread for drying on nearby rocks and shrubbery.

This panorama of color is absolutely beautiful, BUT remember these rivers and streams have many other purposes. I have seen animals, litter and bush-toilets upstream. In the cities each housewife has her beating stone and bucket of water.

If this procedure is being enacted in a stream or river it is also a time for bathing.  I watched a woman wash herself and her sari with twists and turns inside the six yards of fabric without ever showing bare skin.

The commercial businessman for laundry is called a “Dhobi-wallah.”   He will collect laundry from hotels, some homes, dry cleaners (I use that term carefully), and then takes it
to—my term—Dhobiville. Loren’s shirts are laundered by this system then returned to the dry cleaners for pressing. Throughout Dhobiville the rhythm of the drum-like din again resounds.  Each beat here is accentuated with a grunt-ho, not unlike that of a Karate student. Grunt-ho-boom, grunt-ho-boom! Commercially, it is almost a completely male dominated profession.

At Prakash our clothes are also mostly “beat” on a tile floor. RGI has special beating stones for the girls in a washroom, and at PBI the boys use the concrete slabs surrounding the water taps. As Loren’s jeans are being washed you would think the building was falling down caused by the kabooming sounds of beating that echo down the verandas.

A couple of years back, I was told a washing machine had been purchased. Well I, silly me, thought it would be a REAL washing machine. Indeed, the very words “washing machine” are comically inappropriate for this pathetic piece of electrical equipment.  There are two very small compartments of about 12″ in diameter and 18″ deep.  One is bucket-filled with hot water after which it somewhat churns. Then, tediously the dripping clothes are lifted into the other compartment where the clothes are, to some extent, spun dry.  All the clothes are subsequently hung on a line at the top of the Prakash building. Within an hour, there is a fine layer of dust, churned up by lorries traveling the Ring road, on each piece of freshly washed clothing.  Still they are clean and smell wonderful by being dried in the sun.

I have to say that without dear sweet Mangala, the lady who does our laundry, I would be at a total loss as to how to maneuver as a “Dhobi-wallah.”


Jyoti’s Story

Monday, February 1st, 2010

Every Thursday since I have been here in India, I have a Q & A time with a group of RGI students.  It is always a slow start, but at the end of my allotted time they are clamoring with questions, as simple as, “How does it feel on an airplane?”  To the more complicated, “If given the chance, how would I choose a husband?”  In addition, I read the biographies of each girl attending RGI to gain more insight into their previous circumstances.  There are many more “total” orphans attending this year.  In India you are considered an orphan even if one parent is still living.  Anyway, this particular girl’s bio really struck me.

Jyoti is an orphan girl who was found with her two younger brothers living on the street at the age of (more or less) 9. Immediately, the three were taken to a Christian Orphanage in Nasik, but later moved to separate orphanages.  She is lucky that she can return to her orphanage after graduating from RGI. Many do now allow older girls to reside at the orphanage. Back on the street, slavery or prostitution are their only options without RGI.  There is no hope for them to become self-reliant and marriage is almost out of the question.

Jyoti only passed 8th standard, and really had no hope of being self sufficient without the dressmaking training she will receive at RGI. Overjoyed was her response upon finding that “Beauty Parlor” was also an supplementary course.  She had always dreamed of doing “Beauty Parlor,” and God has answered this secret prayer for her.

Jyoti is extremely shy and even though she sings quite well, she lacks the courage to perform.  Nupi, the RGI administrator, is working with her to bolster her confidence.  On Republic Day she sang a beautiful solo for the entire student body of both campuses.

I had to laugh when she said that one of her favorite things about RGI is the bathroom.  I said, “Cue? (Why?”)   She replied, “I did not know it was possible to have bathrooms that didn’t stink.”  Also she, as well as most of the girls, likes the discipline at RGI.  Discipline had always been a negative, not teaching with love.

Jyoti now sees a hope for her future with the life skills, job skills and spiritual training she has received at RGI.

Pray that we will continue to have wisdom in caring for the needs of these darling girls.

The girls are now making some of the cutest little evening purses out of silk.  I am going to bring some home to try and sell to a boutique.