Archive for January, 2010


Third Stop in Jungle Trek

Saturday, January 23rd, 2010

The third part of the jungle trek was really the true trek.  The last time we were able to visit this village was by motorcycle.  There is a semblance of a road weaving through the jungle now, but extremely rough with stones and ruts.  The forest was heavily covered with teak trees.  Unlike the jungle in July the teak trees are now brown and the leaves are small, still the abundance of them makes for an adventurous feeling. Rumors were that a tiger was roaming the area.  Loren’s dream is to see a tiger in the wild.

Banjari tribes are normally nomadic, but 100 years ago this tribe decided the area was a first-rate place to settle so it has become an established village.    

The Indian government gives little help so even the school system only goes up to the fourth standard/grade.  In fact while we were visiting the widow, we were ask if we could establish a hostel school for grades higher than fourth.

Children from all the surrounding villages would love to have a place for schooling.  The villagers have begun to realize that education is the only way they will ever progress.  In recent years, wealthy men from Nagpur have bought up the villagers’ former farmland for a second home/farm for entertainment.  This is the new wave to show wealth.

As we arrived at this hilly village the walk up the muddy path took some maneuvering.  The widow was waiting for us, and the Jersey cow and calf were contentedly lying in the hastily made lean-to shelter.

The widow was a little worried because the cow had not been eating, but Dr. Suresh assured her that it was simply adjusting to the new surroundings.  God really expanded both the widows’ gifts with offspring.  Awesome!!!

One of the signs of a married Banjari woman is her solid silver bracelets; wealth being shown by the number and size.  Also their colorful clothes are very distinctive.  They do not wear saris, but a multi-colored skirt and blouse with a long scarf over the head.  She let us see her face, which is VERY unusual.  Only her deep gratitude for the gift of the cow and calf let her consider us as family and not strangers.

There was a very unique knitted purse hanging from her skirt waistband.  Sylvia, opened mouth and inserted foot, by asking her about the purse.  Next thing I knew, she was emptying it and giving it to me as a gift.  No way I could refuse.  I still forget that giving a compliment sometimes means you will end up with the object of the compliment.  Nupi wanted to wash the purse for me.  I said, “NO, I love it just the way it
is.”

Being a widow for 25 years has been hard but the last three years were extreme.  She has had no money for food.  In order to survive she was forced to borrow, with huge interest, from almost every member of the village.  The cow is now giving her 8 liters of milk a day.  Selling part will eventually pay her loans and will buy food; the rest will enhance the diet of the family.

Her son lives with her in the family hut/home along with his wife and two sons.  He lost his job three years ago, too. We thought the children were girls because of their long hair.  Tradition dictates that the hair of a son cannot be cut until there is a goat sacrifice and feast for the entire village.  (This sacrifice thing again.)  In attendance must be TWO boys for the ceremony and of course, the slain goat and food for a feast.   Now, with the milk from the cow, this festival can take place much sooner.

There is always a crowd of onlookers but one of the more aggressive men of the village came into the area where we were sitting.  He was wearing an obviously new coat.  After some conversation, Loren made a comment about his coat.  He laughed and said, “It is cold for us now.  It is not cold for you because you come from a cold country.  That is why you are so white.”  Everyone had a good laugh.

This is the end of this trek to the jungle, at least for now.

Describing the impact of these animal gifts is difficult.  We are all so blessed, with so much.  Thank you so much for partnering with Prakash to make this kind of Christian influence materialize.  It is an honor to represent all of you.


Second Village Trek

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

The second village on our trek was that of the “Wine Makers.”
(I wrote a long email about this village in July)  About four months ago
Dr. Suresh emailed that there was considerable trouble in that village due to the fact that Vasenta’s sister, Vijaywanti, had married Somsingh. While she was out herding goats for Vasenta she became acquainted with Somsingh.  Because of this union the couple went against custom and therefore have been ostracized from the village. Dr. Suresh felt that their need was immense, so carefully orchestrated circumstances so as not to go against any tribal customs or mores yet give some needed help.  Three goats were given, yet again from the special Christmas gift.

Walking on the path through the village I saw a darling baby girl and of course, I had to hold her.  As my hand touched “bare bottom” I was most thankful for the sanitary wipes residing in my purse.  Later I learned that no “outsider” had ever touched a baby in the village.

The chief of the village came forward with an enthusiastic greeting and after the customary dance, as we call it; we asked permission to visit the young couple. They live about two hundred yards outside the village.  The mother was walking beside me so I put my arm around her, and then was told that since this marriage had taken place she had not seen or touched her daughter.  In fact, their shadow cannot even fall on anyone from the village UNTIL they make restitution bring honor back to the village. To further the humiliation, the path to the meager hut was the toilet lane for the village. I don’t know how they subsist in the pathetic hut as a home. While looking around I observed almost no pots and pans, no blankets, no clothing, literally, they have nothing.

Restoration is almost like an Old Testament blood sacrifice.  The couple will have to buy a male buffalo and a male goat.  They cannot even touch the animals nor can the animals be a gift.  The tribal leaders have to see the couple give the money for the animals.  Then the animals will be sacrificed and the blood poured on the idols.  Then all seven villages come together for a huge feast. The amount of money needed to do this is so far out of the realm of possibility for this couple that there was complete despair and hopelessness.

As we are standing at the edge of this stick hut Loren wanted to make sure that we were not causing any problems by giving goats to the young couple and taking pictures.

The chief said “Nay, nay! Because of what Dr. Suresh has done in showing kindness, I will try to make it easier for this couple to gain acceptance back into the village.  We too, must learn to forgive. The punishment is too severe for the actions.”  OH man, did that bring tears to our eyes.

I became very concerned as to how they were getting food.  Do they have to steal?????  It was explained that the young man daily goes into the jungle for wood, which he is able to sell to a FEW members of the village.  The stain of sin is not as great on the boy as the girl.  Does that sound familiar?

Dr. Suresh is trying to obtain funds for equipment to be able to show the Hindi version of “End of the Spear” to this village.  What an opportunity to show this village how other tribes of the world have been shown forgiveness.


Jungle Trek

Tuesday, January 19th, 2010

One of the most exhilarating and fascinating adventures that Loren and I are honored to be involved in is a trek into the “jungle.”  The tribal village ministry is an extension of Prakash, conducted by Dr. Suresh an alumnus.  The reason for the visits this week was to see families and widows that were given goats or a cow as a Christmas gift from our donors. It was given at Christmas instead of gifts for their own family members.  I don’t think that any of us were aware of the impact that this generosity would have.

There are so many stories that it will take me several emails to relate them all. These gifts were given as a humanitarian gesture by Dr. Suresh days before we arrived in India.  We are only the pipeline, and did not want there to be any misunderstanding as to who had given the gift.

It was a bright sunny day, but thankfully, still not very warm.  The roads are so rough that an average of 10 miles an hour in the Qualis is the best that can be achieved.  I’m sure that every organ in my body was jiggled, but let me tell you, it was worth every bump.

Our first stop was in the “Veggie Tales Village” so called because of the effect of a Veggie Tales Daily Vacation Bible School on the village.  I wrote tons about this village several years ago.  Anyway, we arrived at the hut/home of Vastla, a widow who is from the Untouchable caste.

She doesn’t know her age, but thinks it about 65.  Because of arthritis she no longer can get on her knees to clean the toilets and collect the human waste of the village, therefore has no means of income.

Her son says since he now has a young son,
and his sister and her four-year-old son living with him, he can no longer afford to feed his mother. Women ALWAYS get slighted first.   Another thing, when she was able to work, she could not sleep or eat in the home and had to stay in a bamboo shelter attached to the side of the house until she could purify herself.

There is simply no way to explain what a change it has made in her life to have five goats.  Actually, the gift was suppose to be just one male and two females,  (The goats breed every six months) but the larger of the two females gave birth of twins AFTER the negotiated price was made, so the widow’s gift was expanded greatly.

Now she merely takes the goats into the field daily for food and then later brings a load of fodder home for the night.  What’s more she can sleep and eat in her son’s home and uses the former bamboo hut for the goats. Food for the family will no longer be an issue.
Dr. Suresh will to continue live Jesus by helping her with vaccines and other health issues.

As we left, her crooked tooth smile was more poignant than any “Thank you” could ever be spoken.
I WILL SEND MORE STORIES OF OUR TREK LATER.